Houston Matchmakers | 4 Red Flag Text Messages to Watch For

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Attention single women in Houston! Our Houston matchmakers are here to improve your dating life! With so many losers and players in the Houston dating scene, it’s important you be able to spot the bad apples from the start – and you can do that through simple text messages.

Want to read between the lines of his text messages? Good news for you, it’s easy to do. A guy’s text messages can give you plenty of clues about his true personality, his relationship style, and even his true intentions.

Men think they’re being sly in their messages, especially in the beginning. But as women, we can see right through them. That’s because so many guys send us the same type of messages over and over again. We know what they’re up to, and it’s time you do too – that is, if you already don’t. And even if you do, it never hurts to take a refresher course, right?

Today, our Houston matchmakers are going to show you text messages from men that are huge red flags for you.

1. “I see you’re too busy for me.”

Oh, yikes! Not another one of these guys! If he’s so impatient and can’t wait for a response to his last text message before he sends you another one, he’s so not worthy of your time. Don’t let his “nice guy” act fool you. He may act like he’s kind and patient but that’s clearly not the case once he blasts you with this text message.

This guy is clearly lacking self-esteem and full of insecurities. He is so afraid you’re ignoring him and let’s his fears get the best of him, causing him to lash out on you. Whether he’s trying to make you feel bad and force an answer, nice or otherwise, watch out for this guy. He’s not worth your time.

2. “Still up?”

Well, we don’t have to explain this one to you. Nope, you know exactly what he’s getting at with this late-night text. If he’s texting you in the middle of the night, you know he wants from you. No, thank you! Next!

3. “I’m bored out of my mind over here.”

Why is this guy blurting out that he’s bored? Sounds like he’s out of his mind alright, out of his mind because he’s letting you see just how pathetic his life is. Why would you want to date a guy with nothing going on? This guy sounds like a real loser. Unless you want to be his only source of happiness and entertainment, don’t waste your precious time.

4. “Just wanted to check up on you.”

Hmm, you’ve just started talking to him, so why is he checking up on you? Why? Why does he feel the need to check up on you? Does he think you’re already dating? And even if you were, do you want to be with a partner who feels the need to know what you’re up to every second of the day? Do you want someone demanding to know your every move?

Ladies, don’t overlook what a man’s text messages are truly telling you. Learn to read between the lines and save yourself the time and hassles of dating him down the road. Use this guide and learn how to spot a loser from the get-go.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded single men in Houston, contact our matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. Let our Houston matchmakers introduce you to quality men who are successful, secure, exciting, and totally compatible with you!

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